Choose supporters


If you would like to change your status, you have to overcome your and your environment’s resistance. It is easier to do this by using also external support.
People around you can support you in starting the change or later complete the process.
Of course not everybody in your company will have positive attitude to your plans. Not even those people who love you.
For this it is very useful to evaluate the people around you, choose supporters who can help you with their opinion and encouragement.
Take the following attitudes into consideration:
- attitude to me
- attitude to changes
- attitude to the desired situation

If you choose supporters whose attitude is positive in all three issues, and you believe in their support, then you’ve won further energies for the change.

Let’s see a simple example, using the Chinese five element theory’s parent, grandparent relations:


Me
Change
Goal
Grandfather
+
+
-
Grandma
+
-
-
Father
+
+
+
Mother
+
-
+
Jack
-
+
+
Jill
+
+
+

In this case Father and Jill will be your supporters in the change from the very beginning. Their support needs to be taken into consideration.
Of course your relation to the others needs to be consolidated after the change is completed.


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